@Emerodh @Nick @Mab Good morning everyone!
I don’t know if you’ve managed to make any progress with creating profiles or creating actual instances, but I’d like to add an idea.
As you know, I already manage several instances (Friendica, Mastodon, Lemmy), and since this summer, I’ve also been managing a NodeBB instance called citiverse.it, created primarily to provide a potential alternative to local Facebook groups.
NodeBB is a “Forum” platform that does exactly the same things as Discourse, with the ability to create categories reserved for certain user groups and public categories. The most interesting thing, however, is that it offers the ability to “federate” certain Forum categories, making them visible and interoperable with the entire Fediverse.
Discourse has never gotten this far, and the federation implementation in Discourse is primitive, insufficient, and confusing (Discourse apparently only federates categories without federating profiles), not to mention the fact that it likely won’t be improved in the future.
I don’t know if this would interest you, but instead of creating an instance, you might consider porting Discourse to NodeBB.
Now that I’ve had the chance to try it out for a few months now, I can assure you that it’s a lean, powerful, feature-rich, stable, well-maintained platform that doesn’t require a lot of resources. And so I can really recommend it.
Let me know if you need any further information; I’m available. The lead developer of NodeBB is Julian: julian | NodeBB Community , and this is the NodeBB website: https://nodebb.org/